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When Wet Nursing Was an American Institution: My Homage to Black Mammies

As I'm sure you've heard and read and watched, the newest breastfeeding controversy is over paid breastfeeding or wet nursing. At this point I'm basically like: whatever. If a mother with means wants to hire another woman to breastfeed and bond with her child because she either doesn't have the time or desire to breastfeed, or her breasts are damaged irreparably because they're packed with silicone, so be it. It's my opinion that in most cases wet nursing is pointless and unnecessary and potentially dangerous, but to each his/her own.

While wet nursing today is in actuality a rather frivolous issue, indeed, one that won't dramatically change the landscape of modern child-rearing, less than a hundred years ago, wet nursing as an institution strangled the life and light out of tens of thousand (surely hundreds of thousands) of black women.

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n light of my previous post about black women and wet nursing I decided to pay homage to all the southern black mammies who suckled countless infants who weren't their own either out of force or necessity, thereby neglecting their own children because that's simply the way things were then.

Here are a few voices of black mammies I found on the web site of my favorite university, the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, and incidentally where I proudly attended college. I found all of these stories and images on their acclaimed web site: Documenting the American South.

Pictured above is Mammy Harriet from the book, Memorials of a Southern Planter (Electronic Edition, 1887)*. In it, the author writes this about mammies:
The mistress had wet-nurses for her babies, chosen from among her negro servants. The devotion of the nurses to these foster-children was greater than their love for their own. One of them, with a baby at home very sick, left it to stay with the white child. This one she insisted on walking the night through, because he was roaring with the colic, though the mistress entirely disapproved, and urged her to go home to her own child, whose illness was more serious, if less noisy than the white nursling with its colic.

Another black woman, simply recorded as "a nurse" says in More Slavery at the South: Electronic Edition. A Negro Nurse*...

Ah, we poor colored women wage-earners in the South are fighting a terrible battle, and because of our weakness, our ignorance, our poverty, and our temptations we deserve the sympathies of mankind. Perhaps a million of us are introduced daily to the privacy of a million chambers thruout the South, and hold in our arms a million white children, thousands of whom, as infants, are suckled at our breasts--during my lifetime I myself have served as "wet nurse" to more than a dozen white children. On the one hand, we are assailed by white men, and, on the other hand, we are assailed by black men, who should be our natural protectors; and, whether in the cook kitchen, at the washtub, over the sewing machine, behind the baby carriage, or at the ironing board, we are but little more than pack horses, beasts of burden, slaves!

* © This work is the property of the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill.

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1 Comments:

At April 30, 2007 10:08 PM, Blogger rValley said...

I am so moved by this story...a small facet of black history that our schools not dare teach, but one so worth telling. I am especially moved by the illustration...where was that taken from?

I would love to recreate this scene in photograph it for my upcoming gallery in August Mother Culture and have an idea on a twist...I would love to chat with someone about this.

 

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